Meet and fuck single women
Also, thank you for taking the time to read this during work. Also if you’d like to take this opportunity to tell your female single co-workers about this blog, and ask them if they want to date me, I wouldn’t be mad. Fuck Eharmony.com, which I couldn’t believe was still available. Now the tricky thing about eharmony is, it takes two to tango.
Language, art history, life drawing, editing software, even learning how to play Texas Hold ‘Em all provide you with opportunities to get outside your comfort zone and try something new. It’s easy enough to walk up to someone and say “Hey, did you understand that part about how anxiety about the camera’s availability to the masses inspired the Impressionists” and then later say “Look, I’m having a great time talking to you and I’m not sure I’m quite ready to stop; would you like to grab some coffee and continue this? A word of warning though: some classes are going to inherently be more likely to have a higher female-to-male ratio. By the way, be sure to take advantage of the benefits of becoming a regular.
Going to the gym at the same time every day means you start to get to know the other regulars; getting to know them at least by sight helps to build familiarity and with familiarity comes confidence. They’ll be the ones in makeup with their hair styled in the fashionable workout gear trying not to work up a sweat on the Stairmaster. Coffee shops are awesome places to meet women, especially during the daytime.
A favorite way to start off, as cheesy as it honestly is, is to say that you’re shopping for a sister or a female friend and you’re completely at a loss. You can tease them by pretending they work at the store and you’re frustrated by the horrible customer service or ask if they can recommend a store where you could get something for said sister or friend.
Malls also offer the opportunity for instant mini-dates.
And, crucially, the women I met there were rarely the sort of women I actually liked for longer than it took to recover from the hangover the next day. Well, if you want to go fishing, you gotta go where the fish are. The key words to keep in mind are “calm”, “friendly” and “low key”. So without further ado, my top 5 places to meet women: One of the keys to becoming better with women is to be an interesting person. Most colleges and universities will allow people to audit classes for a fee. You should be spending time in the gym in the first place, really. To start with, most gyms these days have classes; yoga, pilates, martial arts, spinning…
The mall can provide a surprising variety of opportunities to meet women.
Most modern bookstores are designed, like coffee shops, to encourage lingering around, under the assumption that the longer you’re in the store, the more likely you are to spend money.When you come back, you say thanks and introduce yourself. Do yourself a favor though: Don’t make a classic mistake of trying to impress women by pretending to be working on your novel or your screenplay, or by faking a conversation with your “agent”.Nobody’s going to believe you, and frankly, if you were there to work on your great masterpiece, you wouldn’t be talking to people.Books and sketch pads provide an instant opening for conversation, and a pleasant conversation could be precisely the sort of distraction that the women there would welcome.Another easy opening into talking to a woman: ask her to guard your laptop while you go for a refill.Now get out, enjoy your weekend and meet some new people.